Addicts are often stigmatized as these dirty, grungy “junkies” who parole the streets with nobody other than their heroin, Cocaine and/or other illicit drugs to keep them warm at night.  But the reality is, each individual suffering from addiction is someone’s son, daughter, mother, father, best friend, husband, wife, etc.  The list goes on and on.  Yes, some addicts do live on the streets and have chosen a lifestyle of ongoing drug use and chasing the next “high” or feeling of euphoria by their own volition.  But other drug addicts are more secretive and indulge in their drug of choice behind closed doors, in the comfort of their own home, possibly even right under their loved ones’ noses without them even knowing let alone them even suspecting it.  But can you really love a drug addict?  Is their sickness so grotesque that family and friends truly abandon them or is there a way to love and encourage an addict without kicking them to the curb and forcing them out on the streets?  If you have a son or a daughter, a husband or a wife or even another family member or best friend suffering from addiction, you are likely to love them despite their disease of addiction and drug-seeking behaviors.

Loving isn’t always, but love creates a virtually unbreakable bond that says, “no matter what they do, I will care about them and offer encouragement and support in some way”.  Love comes in various forms and often times the relationship that we have with a person determines the strength of the bond and how much we may be willing to do for an individual.  But what is the best way to love an addict?

Do you Love an Addict?  Be Careful!

Loving an addict isn’t easy.  Be careful.  Individuals (even those an addict loves) are put into two categories when they are actively using; tools or obstacles.  An addict will feel each person out and determine whether or not each individual in their life will be a valuable tool to help them acquire their drug of choice or be an obstacle that they have to overcome to get high.  Most good friends and family members will be classified as obstacles because they refuse to help their addicted loved ones get high.  Others may be valuable tools to them because they are willing to provide rides, cash or even do drugs with them.  But ultimately, an addict living in active addiction will life, cheat, manipulate and steal in order to acquire and use their drug of choice.

Enabling an Addict

Parents, spouses, friends and family often possess the best of motives however, they don’t understand that their actions could be enabling the individual to use and abuse drugs.  For instance, most people know and have heard that it’s a bad idea to give a drug addict money – because they will likely buy drugs with it.  So instead, they’ll just buy an addict food.  But this is an indirect way of enabling them since now, they don’t have to spend their own money on things they need like food.  Now, all they have to do is buy drugs with their money because all their basic needs have been provided for.

Life Changes Addiction Treatment Center Can Help You Show Love To Addicts

The best way to love an addict is to encourage them to get into treatment at a top drug rehab facility.  Life Changes Addiction Treatment Center customizes an individual treatment plan and program that’s designed specifically for each client.  Treatment also includes working with families and friends and teaching them how to encourage/support/love the addict after initial treatment.  Life Changes can help to get the ball rolling.  But family and friends play a vital role in the ongoing success of each client after initial treatment at drug rehab.

Our staff is both caring and experienced and provides resources that can produce ongoing support after clients leave.  You are invited to our beautiful drug rehab facility in West Palm Beach, Florida.  Give us a call at (561) 301-1119 and let us help you get your life back on track.

Written and Published by,

William Charles, Publisher of Kill The Heroin Epidemic Nationwide, Heroin News and the National Alliance of Addiction Treatment Centers

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